The 13th Mistake. I've had this idea for a Mindstorm article brewing inside me for some time as an addendum to The 12 Mistakes of Christmas Outreach. It's far from complete, but since it may provide some key direction for Christmas. I thought I'd at least start the conversation.

Following that are some specific
strategy ideas
I'd like to recommend this year. -- Michael



The 13th Mistake:
Giving With Strings Attached.

I shudder even as I write this title, for who among us is immune to this mistake, certainly not me. But the idea is so fundamental to the idea of successful withreach it's important to at least begin the conversation.

The problem (and certainly not the only problem) is that the unchurched expect church marketing to have strings and this generation is quite adept at spotting them. Church-centric outreach shows up in the strangest places, like in "kindness" evangelism. They may not say it, but can't you just hear them think, "If all you want to do is give me a cup of water, why is your logo on the water bottle?"

Christmas is a good time to think about incarnational withreach. Paul describes the incarnational mindset (Phil. 2) that was first in Christ. He said, "Let nothing be done through selfish ambition." He also says, "Let each of us look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others." But I don't think we have to put the first part of this on our to-do list to remember it. Looking out for our own interests is kind of our default mode, and it's sad, but again it is what the unchurched expect a church to do.

But, what if you did the unexpected? Isn't that an essential part of being remarkable? And being remarkable makes you 'remark-able.' It gives people something to talk about, which is the basis of the idea of viral marketing. But there we go again, looking out for our own interests.

But I do have this sneaking suspicion that if a church could shift their focus at least to a 60/40 emphasis on incarnational withreach, and as much as it is within in them, make what is within people (their God-given dreams) the sole object of their reaching, that would be truly remarkable...and so remarkable it could become the talk of the town, maybe even more than a 100-foot living, singing Christmas tree. But now I've 'gone to meddlin.'

 

from the Masterpiece campaign-

Strategy Ideas.

 
 

 Connect Deeply. Since it's hardly remarkable to send a splashy, traditional Christmas message, appeal directly to some of the strongest, emotional needs parents (and anyone for that matter) have...the things that matter most...the God-given dreams that drive every human heart.




Break Through Stereotypes.

In order to cut through the image perceptions that many unchurched people (especially those under 30) have of the church, it can be effective to send an arresting message that stops someone long enough to think and want to look deeper.  It can establish a widespread, memorable identity and when they're ready, they will remember the church who sent that powerful message.

Alone At Christmas.

You don't have to be homeless to feel alone and Christmas can be the most painful time of the year. All the emotions and hurts of the past seem to surface causing many to be more open during this time than at any other time of the year. College students away from home, troubled families, recently unemployed (hard to believe, but people do get laid off in December), the homeless or those with a temporary food need, and those displaced by recent storm damage make the number higher than you might realize.

Consider ways your can reach into these needs and connect with practical help and most of all, supporting friendships. And remember, people don't forget their dreams just because they're broken.








Christmas For The Kids.

For some reason our hearts turn to kids at Christmas. Maybe it's that we enjoy making it special for the kids in our lives or reliving our own Christmas memories. Whatever the origin, it makes good sense to tie those felt needs to their God-given dreams for a purposeful future, for our children, young adults, or people of all ages.

This approach can work to accomplish three things: it can not only promote the ministries of your church, but promote stronger family and community in general, and build strong community awareness and image as a 'heart-wise' church.





 

 
20/30-Something Dreams

Since young adults are especially open and seeking regarding the pursuit of life dreams you can connect strongly with this need while you image your church as a community of dreams...a launching pad for purpose.

As you target different audiences don't worry about aiming too narrow. This focus has a strong appeal for parents and grandparents, and anyone who has special young adults in their life...and it's a bridge to get them thinking about their own dreams as well.

Christmas is a good time to make this connection (think college students, single moms, etc.), with an openness for community combined with a need for direction as one looks to the new year ahead.






Super Bowl Party

A Study of The Power of Life Passion

What if you combined a pregame informal conversation about why we love football and sports in general (pre-pregame, of course)? What does this love possibly tell us about the way we are wired with passion, and as John Eldredge says (in Wild At Heart), "a battle to fight and an adventure to experience."

If you'd like to begin now to develop this January strategy with us, drop me an email.


---------


Partner with us to reach your city...

Community of Dreams
Licensed City Partnership

In the first part of 2006 we will be adding new City Partners in many U.S. cities. If you would like to partner with us in the city plan for your area, contact us by email, tell us a little about yourself, your church, your outreach objectives, along with some of your heart and vision for your great community.

And, don't hold back. This is the time to dream--and dream big--as big as the heart of God for your city. And we'll dream with you.


Identity Package--

Image Continuity Package--

 

- -
Guides and Tools----

Strategyuides and Tools- 
-
Holistic Plans------

--
Community Intelligence-
-

-Mindstorm Net & Retreats

 

 

12 Mistakes Of Christmas Outreach
If you missed this Mindstorm whitepaper download it free or read it online.
----

Christmas Deadline
Community Saturation Campaigns
 Chrismas week mailing Order by Nov 23

for more information

Contacts

Maybe you'd like to discuss your own unique challenge or you have a germ of an idea you'd like to brainstorm with a cityreaching coach. Feel free to call or email us anytime.

C. Michael Johnson mike@breakthroughchurch.com

General questions: missdonna@breakthroughchurch.com


Media site: Breakthroughchurch.com

Partner site: Withreach.com